Stanford Alger 1926 -2013   16 comments


scan0283 correctedJanuary 7th 1926 – January 29th 2013

Stanford (Stan) Rawson Alger 87, passed away January 29th 2013 in Davis Ca. Born in Newport Rhode Island to Maxson and Abbie Alger (Disley), he had two brothers, Donald and Kenneth. Stan moved as a child to Texas with his parents, where he enlisted in the Navy at the age of 20. He attended college at Southern Methodist University in Texas, obtaining a BA in Business Administration. In 1966, he received his Master’s Degree for Education from Northern Arizona University in Flagstaff. He remained in San Diego after leaving the Navy and met the love of his life Glenna, who had also stayed in San Diego after leaving the Navy. He and Glenna Jane Tucker were married in 1950. He is survived by their three sons, William, John and Robert.

Stan taught Social Studies, World Geography and US History for 33 years in the San Diego Unified School District. He spent most of those years teaching at Taft Jr. High, where he retired after 33 years as an educator and mentor. He loved teaching and he loved his students. He was as much embarrassed as filled with pride when former students would approach him 5, 10 even 15 years after graduation, telling him how much they loved him and what a great impact he made on their lives. He often complained about the crazy or wild kids he had in his classes, but the gleam in his eyes as he spoke and the gentle smile on his face painted a truer picture of his feelings towards “his” kids than did his words. His sons never doubted for a minute, that the many hundreds of students he had over the years were as much his sons and daughters as the boys born to him and Glenna. He took pride in their accomplishments, filled them with the desire to be a better person, and minimized their frailties and doubts. In his eyes, they were all amazing creatures, worthy of admiration and praise.

He had a dry wit that fooled many people. He laughed often at himself, never at others. He was happy to laugh with you, but never at you. Stan had that best quality of charm, the charm that never recognized its own existence. He could be self-effacing with sincerity, never realizing how much he affected those he met. He changed the world for 87 years, making it a better place with every breath he took. The breaths are gone, but the changes remain in the hearts of everyone he met. When his sons were at their best, they were the man they saw in him. Stan was a hero to many people, a mentor often and a friend always. May the love of those he met and changed, carry him in his travels.

Stan moved from San Diego to Davis California 3 years ago, where he lived with his oldest son Bill and his family, wife Kathy and their children, Matthew, Lauren and Mark. John and Robert continue to reside in San Diego. Later he moved to The Californian, an assisted living facility in nearby Woodland California, next door to the hospital where Bill works. Stan enjoyed his time at the Californian, making many new friends of his neighbors and staff. Services for Stan were held in Davis California, with military honors. Stan is interred at Greenwood Memorial Park in San Diego with his wife Glenna Jane (Tucker).

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  1. You do him justice with your words, John. I saw the picture earlier of you and your brothers and sister. You and Bob look a lot alike, and you both resemble your dad quite a bit physically. After reading this, I know that you resemble him in many other ways, too. I also recognized the name of your ship. I bet both your parents are smiling right there next to you, proud that you’ve written so eloquently about the things you have, including and especially this. I’m positive that you know this song, and probably like it as much as I do. I’m sending this your way because I know you’re still hurting and all I can do is send you internet *hugs* and let you know you’re in my thoughts, dear friend. Smile through the tears and know that all those who have gone on before us are not truly gone…

  2. John, I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad had such a wonderful life was was well loved by all of you. And I am sure although he’s not here physically, his spirit will stay alive forever. RIP Dad! Again, I am so sorry to hear this.

  3. In the sweetness of his eyes you can see the kind of teacher and father he was. With this beautiful testament, your pride and admiration for him permeates every word of your writing. I don’t know if you noticed, but your picture and his picture on this page both have the same sweet look in the eyes and the same smile. As they say, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Life goes on my friend and it sounds like he had a very good life. Thank you for this, John. I never look at the obituaries but it was a joy to read this loving testament.

    • Thank you John, I can’t tell you how much it means to me that you took the time to read and comment here. All three of his sons reflect him, in appearance and actions, he built great things. :-)

  4. A great father, an inspiring teacher, a beautiful soul, all quietly done, without the need for the light to be on him. Stan shined outwardly so that others could be seen. I will always remember Stan’s eyes and that smile!

  5. What a delightful expression on his face, and a twinkle in his eyes. Lovely tribute written of him. My thoughts are with you.

  6. He sounds like a wonderful person. You are so lucky to have him as a Dad. :-)

    • Thank you C.B., and you’re right. I had the most AMAZING parents. My Mom and Dad were different in their personalities, but twins in their qualities. If I had been able to choose my parents (perhaps I did), I would have chosen them, and would choose them again given the chance.

  7. Beautiful. Just beautiful. Thank you so very much for sharing your daddy with us.

  8. I remember him and being in his class.and also remembering hangin out with his son john.steve Bernard .yvette whoot..its been along time ago sorry for your lose God Bless u and yours

    joanie weese spivey sullins
  9. Sorry to hear this, your love shines through your words. The young pirate looks very much like his dad :)

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